The perspective of one's life...

It’s your scent and the touch that defines me,

the pleasure in solitude we find together.

Ain't what we have thought of, 

it's not what we have gone through

simply the way we find ourself, loving each other

I won't say, i have seen the future, 

Or, i have been there,

I won't say, I am an Oracle, 

wont say I am the one...

but I would say, 

Every kiss, is like the last kiss of life.

Every moment is the flash of lifetime

Drifting away in the magical night of your eyes, 

Holding hand together is indefeasible

The small actions of your mighty expression

Nothing much to say, nothing is there to pretend

Listening your heartbeat all through the night

Falling asleep, my head on your chest

Your scent and your touch mesmerises my skin

It’s your scent and touch that defines me...

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A Decade of Solitude

Time flew so fast that it’s going to be a decade now.

A Decade of responsibility,
A Decade of making my own decisions,
A decade of Insecurity,
A decade where I have lost many things, and gained some.

It’s like ages ago when I used to feel comfortable, happy and full of joy. Life changed in such a way, that I have never expected to be, until I was 18.

A whole different world was waiting, I didn’t see that coming. I remember the evening when I was informed, and it was like everything which I had, I lost.

I lost you, We lost you…

Load of advises, various rituals, and many people giving assurances, all fake.

It’s been years and I forgot what it feels like calling Dad/Papa.
How it’s like to feel secure?
How it feels when you get scolding on wrong decisions?
and appreciated when you do something good.
How it feels to ask/demand without thinking?
How it feels like mom taking my side against you?
What festival means, what is the joy of celebration? How togetherness feels.

Forgot what fear is?
Fear of not doing something,
fear of doing right thing,
fear of get beaten up on mistakes.

And now, I only have this blurry image of all those feelings, and It’s just me now, trying to do the right thing.

It’s been decade when someone had told me “do what you want, I am here with you”. I forgot how it feels when someone says: “Don’t worry I am here”.

I remember when I was little, I just followed the decisions that you took for me. Good, Bad, Sad whatever, but I didn’t have to think, I didn’t have to put my brains in it. I just had to follow.

It’s been a decade I am making my own decisions. Good or bad, Right or wrong, no one questioned. And I grew up very soon, when normally teenager think about spending money, party with their friends, buy a new bike, I started thinking about earning, saving and not to become a liability on her, trying to support her anyway I could, and I did my best. Still, I think I made mistakes, I could have done it better, but I learned from all the mistakes I made.

I approximately experienced everything in these 10 years, how people change, how they act as they are your true guardians, and then how they just don’t give a damn about you. How someone walk into your life and act as you are an integral part of their lives, and then walk-out as you were nothing. Relatives, Friends and people who say ‘You are like family to them’, keep on coming and crossing by, like passengers, they don’t stay, they don’t care. And that’s the truth of life.

There were times, when I was neglected, rejected, demotivated, unappreciated, with these same people who gave me all those crap of assurances, advised me ‘what to do and what not to do’.

But still I respect all of them. I learned this from you, watching you giving respect to everyone, doesn’t matter who they are or what they had done. The respect you gave to her, the respect you had for our likes and dislikes and our decisions, anyone else can’t give, and so there is no point.

You were and are my ideal. I always wanted to be like you, the way you walked, the way you talked, the way you dressed up, you were the most handsome person I had ever known or seen.

My existence is because of you and you are my father.  I forgot what this word means but yes I still have those images of yours and sense that you are still somewhere watching and guiding me, giving me strength to take big decisions and supporting me when I go wrong. And this makes me strong and I forgot what feeling week is…

Why Twitter is a hit!?

Why Twitter??

Let me ask you first, Why are you on twitter?

To get the updates of the person whom you like?

To check whom your bf/gf is talking to or following?

To get the latest News?

To know what is new in the world?

To fill a vent of your life by being omnipresent?

Or just like that?

There can be infinite reasons, and may be all of them can be true, or may be you are just faking it.

Anyway coming to the point, why I think Twitter is not too good but its a good thing,

Someone says..... "Twitter is a giant time suck!"

"Seriously, let’s say you have 4,267 followers. Do you really think that anyone is reading your tweets? Do you read the tweets from your 4,267 followers? Other than a spamy DM (that’s Direct Message for you newbies), have any of your followers ever contacted you, or bought something from you? "

Point 1-

If you have 4267 followers, you are a Hero, and you shouldn't talk like this,

Dell has more than 20 profiles on Twitter, with more than 15,00,000 at Max and 398 at Minimum followers, whom they keep track on sec basis, they reply and understand queries of each and every user and are helping them.

I am not going to tell you all what exactly Dell and Consumers are getting,because you are intelligent enough to understand. If not then Leave the topic... :)

Point 2

If you have 4267 followers, how the hell in this world YOU will be able to get their tweets, they are your followers, you are not following them!

Companies do contact the customer, friends do contact their friends, I do contact some interesting people and my "ex" that is the whole point, why the hell will someone will contact some stupid uninteresting person, and if you are telling me even after having "4267" followers, none of them contact you, hoh man! what are you??

Some Says.....

"What is the purpose? Why would you tweet a message to 4,267 followers knowing that if you were truly blessed that possibly 2 people might actually see your message, stop what they’re doing and give thanks that YOU just finished a bagel at Starbucks?

What am I missing here? How could such a time-wasting application gain such popularity? If no one’s reading, but everyone’s tweeting, what is the purpose? Who gains what? Tweeting is like cooking a chicken and tossing it out the window. YOU feel good about your accomplishment, but no one knows you did it and you just wasted time for nothing. "

I agree with this para, but not truly, I see people tweeting every single second, I don't see that happening in this environment, it sometimes pisses me off too, but I see some sensible tweeters tweeting some sensible stuff at a particular time interval.

Free Suggestion (Don't overdo it)

Although again coming to the point, Twitter is a success because Facebook doesn't have an unlike button and followers are not your friend,

e.g.

you clear out your frustration in here, because you can't do it on Facebook or on anybody's face because their are friends and family.

Twitter has Huge potential, I don't think for utilizing the potential their should be A Million followers, it's about using the source at it's full, in India actually there is no case study which can show you the true potential of twitter,

I feel that the area is still to define... 99% user are using twitter for a bull-shit reason, believe it or not, but just check their tweets, what relevancy and add-ons you find in their tweet in respect to their life, it's just too much noise with nothing good in it.

But I can see the future, with relevant followers who are interested in learning & understanding and following relevant company or people...

Right now what it is, it's a TREND, very soon it is going to become a need, and once it will take that Shape you can clearly feel the difference.

Daring or Excitement or Adventure or Personality

Do you drink and drive, gamble, or sleep with strangers? It's not just a behavior. It's a personality.




She lives for excitement. She dies of boredom when life becomes too predictable. She has a wide circle of friends but no tolerance for dullards. She likes meeting exciting new people, even if she knows that they are unreliable. She smokes and drinks hard—and parties heavily on weekends with Ecstasy, or any new drug that appears on the scene. She thinks nothing of going to bed with someone she just met, without obtaining character references or condoms. She has a Porsche that she drives...fast. She also likes to gamble at the casino—often losing more than she can afford. She's behavior encompasses many kinds of risk. In the long term, the most dangerous of her activities are smoking and drinking. There are nearly 80 times as many deaths per year from tobacco and alcohol as from cocaine and heroin. But She thinks only of today's gratifications, not their associated dangers.

"She" is a fictional character, but she represents a kind of general risk-taker, one whose behavior encompasses many different activities. Such broad-spectrum risk-takers not only exist, I have discovered, but have a distinctive personality makeup that is the product of both genes and experience. It is important to identify such people because they create significant public health problems, for others as well as themselves. But for all the danger they put themselves in, they personify—perhaps magnify is more precise—a human trait that is very much responsible for our survival as a species.

Over these weeks, I have studied about personality traits, I have seen various personalities attracted towards doing things way out of their culture & tradition.
One of my friend wrote:
"I do bad things sometimes. I seem to have an attraction to them. I try to make up for it though, that's about all one can do." and few of my best buddies accepted the fact.
"Risk taking or doing wrong things is not the main point of sensation-seeking behavior; it is merely the price such people pay for certain kinds of activities that satisfy their need for novelty, change and excitement. In fact, many of the things that high sensation-seekers do are not at all risky. They enjoy high-intensity rock music, view Sex and horror films, travel to exotic places, and party without drugs" Sensation-seeking can also extend to the physical, involving unusual or extreme sports such as skydiving, hang gliding, scuba diving, auto racing, rock climbing and whitewater kayaking. An interest in participating in such sports describes one subcategory of sensation-seeking: thrill- and adventure-seeking.
- Writes a psychologist.
Some psychologists have suggested that risk-taking is linked to Neuroticism, a personality trait. They see it as an expression of neurotic conflict, a form of acting out or counter-phobic behavior. Our previous research on physical risk-taking refutes such an explanation; it suggests that risk-takers do not expressly exhibit traits of neuroticism or anxiety.
So, people who are like "SHE" are of that personality, its not habit.

High-risk behaviors like reckless driving, an antisocial activity if ever there was one, are a vehicle for expressing aggressiveness and hostility. Or perhaps risk-taking might be just an expression of a generalized need for activity itself, as is the case with hyperactive individuals, who provide their own stimulation through activity to overcome boredom.

Yet many risky activities, such as drinking and drug use, are done in a social setting. So it is possible that these activities, particularly in a college population, may be related to sociability. I look at college students, when I was in college there was a friend of mine and few of my friends were engaged in some or all kinds of risky activities like: smoking, drinking, drugs, sexual behavior, reckless driving.

Now I ask a question: Is there indeed such a thing as a generalized risk-taking tendency? and if so, what type of personality traits are associated with this tendency?
Also,
There is a question I asked with a psychologist friend was: whether the six arenas of risk are interrelated, pointing to a concept of generalized risk-taking.

As it turned out, smoking, drinking, sex and drugs work in tandem with each other. Among both males and females, students who did one tended to do the others.

you can answer on your own, with your experience.

As a single guy, I use to go to the parties, I don't drink, I don't smoke, hence I know the difference between being in senses and senseless deeds. I like dancing with girls, but I definitely know what is the limit. Drunk girls can easily be loosed and ultimately they end up sleeping with other guy. I have experienced two different statements with a same girl, while drinking and smoking and the next morning.

Drinking, Smoking, One night stands, Gambling etc. are not part of adventure, it is something stupid that will make you regret once in a while in your lifetime. If doing this for fun or you love to do it, then just do it, relating this to adventure is wrong.

As far as risk taking and adventure is concerned,

Start a business,
Horse ride,
adventure Sports,
Go to Everest, north and South pole,
Leave your parent's home to build your own,
make your dream your life,
and all these things needs your 100% sense,
or check out Tushky http://www.facebook.com/iamTushky

so what about alcohol?

Lustful Longing

Tell me what I'd have to change. Who would I have to be

To slip into your arms; for you to make sweet love to me.

Must I climb the highest cliff; swim along the ocean floor

Crawl over broken glass - would you demand that I do more?

Could you take me as I am, with my issues and my flaws

Pull me to your chest without a hesitation or a pause?

Slide your hungry tongue between my parted lips.

Run your anxious fingers along my quivering hips.

Wrap me in your passion, expose your every need.

Press your steamy lips to mine, every secret freed.

Sprinkle your tears across my cheek, confess every desire

Moan my name, call me yours, and set my soul on fire.

Need me more with every breath that slips into your chest,

Please me nightly, miss me daily, never compare me with the rest.

Grip my wrists; look in my eyes, and say the words I long to hear

Kiss me roughly, and weep my name, forever hold me dear.

Do I ask for wishes that could never quite come true?

Is my sin, my greatest fault, that I can't stop loving you?

~Jennifer

Invisible Fences

I am reading a book of Robin Sharma, what an amazing writer, but I will like to call him phenomenal observer. This post is dedicated to the thoughts which he was able to implant in

my cerebellum.

why we avoid change? why we don't innovate? why we don't express the genius residing within us? why we choose to simple life and avoid challenges? why we choose to leave the discussion or conflicts? - The reason "Invisible Fences".

Have you ever seen a military officer training his dog? if not then let me explain for you..

It spoke on of an invisible fence. It's a system that sets an invisible boundary that the dog can't get past. The dog eventually become conditioned so that even when the fence is gone, it will not run beyond it. The dog sets up an imaginary limits that determine its reality.
We are like that too. As we grow up, we adopt negative beliefs and false assumptions and sabotaging fears from the world around us. These become our invisible fences. We believe that they are real. When we bump up against them at work(and in life), we retreat. We believe the boundary is true. So we shrink from all we are meant to be/do/have. The illusion seems so real. But its not.

Watch a 2 year old baby, is he afraid of doing anything, or does he think that what will be the consequence of the actions he is taking,

NO.. and this is the big reason, why a baby starts Crawling then walking and finally running...

They don't set their limits, and if they will, trust me they will never grow.

Don't Set your limits - Setting limits and analyzing too much results a very narrow path which leads to grow but "rationally".

Extraordinary people are ordinary people with extra imagination. They are failed thousand of times but still they continue doing it, that is what we call courage.

I remember a quote from Thomas Edition when he was asked by a journalist:

"Sir, How do you feel when you failed 10,000 times before this greatest invention."

He smiled and replied "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.".

No great life was ever built on a foundation of excuses. My elder brother, I adore him, and he is one of my ideals, I remember when I was in 10th going to give my exam, He asked me something and I gave some excuse for not doing that.... He replied "We have forty million reasons(excuses) for not doing, but only one reason for completing the task, and that is I Had to".

Successful people don't make excuses. They create results. And no great life was ever built on foundation of excuses. Most of them are self created delusions, designed to help you avoid doing the things you are afraid to do. Yes, beneath every excuse lives a fear.

A fear of changing, unknown, failure, success.

"No matter what life sends us, we are the responsible for the way we respond"

- Rohit Sharma

We truly are. We can own our reaction. We can choose what we do with the situation. We can be bitter, or show up better. Tons of choices - at all times. Starting with our words, choosing them well, positive attitude & open mind...

Life is Beautiful

Treasured Memory of New Year Celebration (Part I)

New Year's Day is every man's birthday."

- Charles Lamb

When I saw this quote five, six days back, I thought of why not I start a new different life!! not because my life is boring or something, it's because I want few different things this year, so I finally decided to start this in a new way,

leaving all kind of crap behind, and thinking to have a blast on 31st, I agreed for the party.

So we (Me and 23 more different people of different companies & backgrounds) get together and decided to celebrate our new year on farmhouse far from the city, in the peace of mountains, below stars shining and lightening up the grass and trees. The plan was perfect and exciting, and seriously what we had was damn exciting and are some treasured memory.

Here it starts:

The Journey Part I

I left my house to tie up with these people at 6 PM and reached Titwala 3 stations away from Kalyan @8:20, where I found they are waiting for the train back to Kalyan, on the wrong Platform, where I first found out that where we had to reach is 50KM away from the place where we were standing. So we waited and waited for train to come.

Somehow fortunately I saw the indicator and realized, that the train was already positioned on the other platform.

well.. that is not big a deal, it happens sometime, so we rushed and took the train.

On the way, after taking advice with different people we came to know that we should get down one station prior to Kalyan as it is only 45 KM from there.

We did that and again started waiting for other people to come for next 1.15 hrs.

Somehow the pause was over and they came

Late but we realized that we were not ministers so that drivers would have been waiting for us with the car at 10:30PM in the interior of a state.

So we finalized two rickshaw..

How much we were paying? - 1200 bucks, for 40 KM

(but anyway instead of 3 people, 5 person hopped in and now its OK)

Somehow after one hour of journey we again get a surprise news, that it was actually 55 -60 KM's away, but we kept on going in that cold, chilly, freezing wind, and we managed to reach at the place.

Arrival & Celebration...

After 1.5 hours we arrived at the location, It was perfect - moon(Dim)light, Stars, loneliness (except 25 people), DJ, Lighting, BallFire, ("Vodka, Rum, Beer, Wine etc" - Not of my interest ) Chicken, everything to make you feel like heaven.

As the two hand of clock hits, we all wished each other a happy new year, and crackers lit up and Music started. We all started dancing and hugging each other, Drinkers and smokers were on the fire... and the place was looking so beautiful.

I was there on the dance floor, standing and shaking my Ass & looking at the girls dancing, drinking and smoking, having fun.

I and my one more friend standing beside me were enjoying THUMPS UP and we suddenly watched a man in a sweater, monkey cap, and formal pant, coming from behind the bushes, 7 more people were following him and immediately they surrounded us. Before we act or think we were on the gun point of 7 Police officer's, and we were looking at each others face........ :)

New post @ Big Brands

New post...

@Big Brands

http://nishant-choudhary.blogspot.com/2010/12/endorsement.html

No Subject...Crap!

Hi all. Read this if u want, if u don't... well, fine. I am about to list my griviences for today, so if u don't want to be whined to go away. Thanx.
Here:

1. My thighs hurt from stretching and I still don't have the 180 degrees straight legs . It's all for naught.
2. I can't move right because of my exercise today and the fact that I forgot to take a hot shower afterward or may be I was in hurry.
3. I have a ton of study and two big projects coming up, so screw this. I probably won't be able to Fbook all this week with all the crap I still have to do. This is redicuolous. My weekend lasted like ten minutes and now its just back to work. :(
4. Arrgh...I have to much to do, basically. And lots and lots of laundry/cleaning/petty annoyances don't help me any.

Thanx for reading, if u did. I have to go now and start the wash my cloth & myself because if I don't I'll have no clothes for tommorrow and I will be a good environment for all new species evolving on this planet.

What can you do?

You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.

You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.

Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.

Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

Apple App... Go Nude!

People need many things right now, but surely nothing more than the ability to spontaneously see through the clothing of another.

You know this is true. So do the other-oriented folks at Presselite. For they want you to share their pride in an application creation called Nude

It, which was approved by the Apple store Komsomol Tuesday.

Antoine Morcos, co-founder of Presselite, admitted in a press release that the creators' inspiration in the development of this astounding technology came from the WhoIsTheBaldGuyBlog. I have embedded a YouTube video in order to give you some relief from feeling that you inhabit a strange planet called Nexus One.

In essence, the pleasure you will get from Nude It may well rival what you felt when you were 7 and took a gullible elementary school pupil into the restroom, placed their head in the toilet bowl, and asked them if they've ever seen the blue goldfish.

I can sense your cheeks twitching with anticipation as to how one might use the Nude It app. Well, the instructions tell me that you point your iPhone at a friend, or someone who is about to be a former friend, from a distance of less than 6.5 feet.

The scanning technology will then reveal to you every last mole on your victim's ribcage, as well as every last goose bump of their excitement.

This is what they call nude? Sigh.

(Credit: Presselite)

The makers do warn that you should clearly see your subject's face on the screen before you activate their embarrassment.

I am concerned, though, by the images that Presselite has included as an example. You see, they show that Nude It merely reveals people in their underpants. The general method males use for this purpose is to find a lady friend with whom they can wander into any of the increasingly liberal changing rooms of our major retail stores.

Still, I know many of you will be rushing to experience this new tool and that several of you will soon have pressing appointments with your Human Resources department.

New Blog "Big Brands"

Hello guys...

Started a new Blog... "Big Brands"

check this out....

http://nishant-choudhary.blogspot.com/

If one day you...

If one day you feel like crying…
Call me..
I don’t promise you that…
I will make you laugh
But I will cry with you….

If one day you want to run away-
Don’t be afraid to call me.
I don’t promise to ask you stop,
But I can run with you…..

If one day you don’t want to listen to anybody;
Call me and..
I promise to be very quite….

But if one day you call and there is no answer…
Come fast to see me….
Perhaps I need YOU…

What what?? Creativity is...

ILLNESS....

I was reading creative thinking as I wanted to think creatively hence BINGED it to know few stuff...

What I found I really want to share with you people...

Go through it :)

Creativity linked to mental health

New research shows a possible explanation for the link between mental health and creativity. By studying receptors in the brain, researchers at the Swedish medical university Karolinska Institutet have managed to show that the dopamine system in healthy, highly creative people is similar in some respects to that seen in people with schizophrenia.

High creative skills have been shown to be somewhat more common in people who have mental illness in the family. Creativity is also linked to a slightly higher risk of schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. Certain psychological traits, such as the ability to make unusual pr bizarre associations are also shared by schizophrenics and healthy, highly creative people. And now the correlation between creativity and mental health has scientific backing.

"We have studied the brain and the dopamine D2 receptors, and have shown that the dopamine system of healthy, highly creative people is similar to that found in people with schizophrenia," says associate professor Fredrik Ullén from Karolinska Institutet's Department of Women's and Children's Health.

Just which brain mechanisms are responsible for this correlation is still something of a mystery, but Dr Ullén conjectures that the function of systems in the brain that use dopamine is significant; for example, studies have shown that dopamine receptor genes are linked to ability for divergent thought. Dr Ullén's study measured the creativity of healthy individuals using divergent psychological tests, in which the task was to find many different solutions to a problem.

"The study shows that highly creative people who did well on the divergent tests had a lower density of D2 receptors in the thalamus than less creative people," says Dr Ullén. "Schizophrenics are also known to have low D2 density in this part of the brain, suggesting a cause of the link between mental illness and creativity."

The thalamus serves as a kind of relay centre, filtering information before it reaches areas of the cortex, which is responsible, amongst other things, for cognition and reasoning.

"Fewer D2 receptors in the thalamus probably means a lower degree of signal filtering, and thus a higher flow of information from the thalamus," says Dr Ullén, and explains that this could a possible mechanism behind the ability of healthy highly creative people to see numerous uncommon connections in a problem-solving situation and the bizarre associations found in the mentally ill.

"Thinking outside the box might be facilitated by having a somewhat less intact box," says Dr Ullén about his new findings.

Well!! I am already born in mental ill family :D

I Dont need to study this.... :P

I am water

I go deep where I see...
I take the shape of where I live...

I please them when they have me...
I destroy them when I get angry....

All the happiness in this world is because of me....
All the sorrows are because of me...

I love you if you love me....
I never complain even if you mess with me....

You take my advantage....
Still I am there for you....

I give you my soul...
Still you don't trust me....

I am water....
I am ME....

PS: I tried... forgive me if bad...

Missing someone??

Four years of a great friendship and Three years of deep relationship, when your friend or girlfriend go away, its very natural you miss her...

I do too...

I have no shame in accepting that I miss her, because I loved her the most in my life...

The relationship which we share is unexplainable. I cant explain my feeling and even what I feel... It is because feeling, love, missing someone cannot and never be explained.

As a human being, we see lots of chapters in our lives. While moving step by step ahead in life, we all experience love and friendship. In these relationships, the feeling which often arises, is the feeling of missing your special ones. Actually, it is fact that happiness and sadness walk together. Happiness comes after sadness and sadness comes after happiness. When we love someone, whether it is our beloved or true friend, we should prepare for some hard moments. Most of the time, lots of misunderstandings take place and people have to move opposite of each others. But after sometime, the another season comes and that is the time for missing them.

When we get away from our best friends or lovers, we start missing them. There are lots of missing you quotes to explore the condition of hearts. Let me tell you that missing someone is very sad feeling. You can not sit relax. The memories of that person tease you a lot. He/she starts coming in your dreams or you remember them all the time. The good time, the happy moments and lots more start coming in your senses. At that time, you can only be calm when you able to meet or talk to that person.

It often being said that whatever happens, happens for a good reason. I agree with that. You only realize the value of that person when you go far from him/her. The missing you quotes elaborate the same thing.

I would like to suggest you five things to do when you start missing your friend and beloved. These things will never help you to reduce your pain, but you will console yourself that their is a method...

1. Just try to connect with that person via phone, email, chat or s.m.s. ( you cry, you become sad, feel happy, have fight, get Jealous, and you end adorably with "I miss you, I love you, I am sorry, what to do I cant help it...")

2. Do not sit idle, just try to be busy. ( I do my Job... I work... trust me it never works.. when you are finish with your work you remember... why you were trying to be busy?? F**K)

3. If that person is near to you, just move and meet him/her. (Not possible in my case at all)

4. Never try to hide your feeling of missing her. If your feel it then just go and express yourself. (Best thing to do... It works...and you feel little more closer :) )

5. Be relaxed and console your heart by saying that we will meet soon. ( I started doing this before she left... :P )

We all have lots of emotions like anger, kindness, stress, crying, love.

Loving someone and missing her is natural.
Missing is most beautiful in all of them....

Miss You....

Fornication Sin??

"Pre-marital sex or Fornication" is a big NO-NO in our culture for various reasons.

While prohibiting sex until one is married has its own merits, one must also consider the fact that in recent times the age in which the men and women are tying the nuptial knots has been slowly on the rise. Early 30s is a common age until which men and women remain un-married due to prevalent socio-economic situation.

In light of this, I wonder if Indian values have undergone any changes or do Indians still consider pre-marital sex a sin. Please share your thoughts and views."

Holland was one of the first nations where sex became nothing more than a cup of coffee. In the 1960's and after it the sexual revolution in the Netherlands was extreme. there was partner changes, group-sex, tools-sex, and many more materialized forms of sexual things. Now we Indians too are one or two generation further and look at the results. Many old people lives in extreme loneness. Family ties are practically loosing away here in India. The whole society does not exist in metro's here in fact. Nation is being presented as a fabric, where only material profit is important.

Children here are having hard youth. I feel so sad to see that young girls cannot be happy, their whole youth is gone. For a little girl the youth must be pure and without problems of adults. If young girls are not happy then there is something really wrong with the society. In Hindu culture young girls have the powers of Durga Maata and in fact they are treated as holy members of the society.

The facts of life in metro free sex society: Many girls have no morality anymore. They see themselves as lower evolved creatures and they hate their own body later. Mentally they are depressed and the result is that they do not enjoy relations with men.

There is always a man who is many times better and the boys knows that this is the reality. Love is gone. Tenderness is gone. Relations are built upon sexual needs, without the feeling of being connected with the other soul.

Love is completely materialized.

My vision:

I think that sexuality is very important for every human being. and that's why it is better to marry at young age, to develop your own feelings toward and to fulfill your duty to reproduce, if not that indulge with someone whom you really Love and see your future. Every human being needs intimate relations not only to feel that he/she is living and enjoying life, also because of that emotional feeling that there is someone who is always there for him/her, in all of there bad and good times.

But men have other definitions of intimacy than women. Maybe it is better to learn more things about the female vision on intimacy and love.

Sex and pornography are typically male things in society, because men have more needs and they must prove that they are good and potent or full with brutal male energy. Maybe it is better to make it easier to find a public woman and to let young boys develop their sexual personalities, But it is even better to let young boys marry early ages and to learn how to love somebody and to take care of the weaker gender.

For many males sex is the only goal. Just like a sickness that cannot be cured. Many girls do not want a friend anymore and they decide to live alone forever, without children. Empty lives, filled with the richness of many thousands.

Having mountains of money yet being extremely poor. All over the world even in India now.

Many women especially my one good friend of Italy (divorced) told me the following things:

The men are just like animals, because sex and dirty pornography (doing things) are the only goals in a intimate relation with a female.

The respect and tenderness are gone in free sex societies. Only doing (mating activity) counts.

The satisfaction of women is very low and relations are terminated without being started.

Why do we condemn tenderness and deep intimacy (immaterial) between a man and a woman as being old-fashioned and backward? Old traditions are based upon wisdom that is developed during many centuries. the technology of the human spirit is lost nowadays and developing it again will take many centuries. We are back at the stone age, where females were preys and males were the hunters.

The bottom line is when two young people are together alone and hormones are bubbling, it is very difficult to stay in control. However, all the misconceptions, that pre-marital sex makes you aware of your sexuality or whether there is a chemistry between the couples are mere justifications. Enjoyment of Sex is directly connected to upbringing, psychology and last but not the least love.

Most Indian women in the 50s were brought up with guilt and fear when it came to sex education thus they didn't quite understand the concept and sex was not enjoyable with them. Likewise most impotent men have psychological reasons. Sex is enjoyable with couples when they are truly in love they learn to give pleasure to their partner over a period. Even married couples and in love cannot enjoy sex to its fullest, if they are under pressure of any kind may be a financial problem or issues between them which are not resolved.

PS :- Fornication is not bad if there is True Love & Future....

Blue....

It is the poem for all those who may never understand how much someone can love Him/Her...

It was always about I and You.....

You make me feel special,
You make me feel new,
You make me feel loved,
With everything you do.

You hold me close when I am sad.
You wipe the tears from my face.
Every time we are together,
It seems like the perfect place.

My eyes light up when you enter a room.
I smile when we are together.
No matter how bad things are,
You always make them better.

I love the way you kiss me,
The way you hold me tight.
I love the way you touch me,
I could be with you all night.

I love the way you can make me laugh
For absolutely no reason at all.
I love how no matter what I do,
You will be there to catch me when I fall.

I just want you to know,
That even though we sometimes fight,
I will always love you!
No matter what, day or night....

Creativity.....

;-)